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Marcus Lopés

LGTBQIA2S+ Author, Blogger, Runner

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You Always Have a Choice

May 2, 2024 by Marcus 1 Comment

How we spend our time is always up to us. We can work on our book or binge-watch Netflix. We can go to the gym or we can hit the snooze button. Instead of eating a salad, we may reach for that bag of potato chips. You always have a choice, and although I’ve always known that, it’s become more clear as I embrace writing off the grid.

The Choice to Do Less

The main reason I decided to pull back from social media in mid-April was because I was feeling overwhelmed and, consequently, burnt out. When I started to ramp up my social media engagement, it didn’t take long for progress on my writing projects to wane. Although I was coming back from a running injury, I quickly found any reason not to run. And when I felt short on time, it was easier to fill my lunch bag with potato chips and banana bread than healthy snacks.

I knew then that if I wanted to move forward, and actually make progress on the things I told myself mattered most, I had to make a choice. And that choice was to do less. So, I chose to do less and pull the plug on social media—and, by extension, write off the grid.

The Upside of Doing Less

It’s only been a few weeks since I decided to do less, but I already feel like I’m doing more. Like I mentioned in Monday’s post, I’m either getting in a run or going to the gym (even if it’s just a twenty-minute workout) every day. I’ve put consistently more time in on a writing project that had been stalled for months. And the rewrite of another is moving forward at a good clip, too. I’m packing myself healthier lunches and have found my rhythm again to incorporate intermittent fasting into my day.

Yes, we always have a choice as to how we spend our time. Let the choices we make help us become the best we are capable of becoming.

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  1. Take a Moment to Breathe - Marcus Lopés says:
    August 22, 2024 at 12:07 pm

    […] way. And as my frustration began to mount, I knew I needed to look at my options. Because we always have a choice, and when our emotions run high, we can sometimes make a decision that doesn’t suit our needs or […]

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